your in a good relationship..
why ruin it?
your not happy in your relationship
get out of it!
why cheat?
why ruin it?
your not happy in your relationship
get out of it!
why cheat?
cheating is such a waste of time..and the outcome is never positive. my little sister just came to my house crying cause her boyfriend cheated on her...of course i consoled her but at the same time i had to tell her that she kinda set herself up for this one...when she met her boyfriend he had a girlfriend and they talked for two months before he even broke up with his girlfriend.. ..if he'll cheat with you, he'll cheat on you!
now she has this stupid "oh well i don't care" mentality ..saying she's not going to get serious with any guys...she's not going to be faithful anymore its just a waste of time and energy...
now she has this stupid "oh well i don't care" mentality ..saying she's not going to get serious with any guys...she's not going to be faithful anymore its just a waste of time and energy...
hurt people, hurt people
so now since this one man cheated on her shes out to get the rest of you ..lol
cheating never has a positive outcome..but hey you live and you learn
cheating never has a positive outcome..but hey you live and you learn
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aimee its not always that easy to just let someone go if your unhappy. usually the unhappy part comes later on down the road. in the beg everything is fresh and new. but after awhile you get used to loving that person and even though things are the best its good to be able to have someone else that you can go to without losing the one you love
sure i agree to a certain extent..but apart of loving someone is being unselfish & if your willing to hurt someone just so that you can have fun...you dont really love them too much..your only thinking about yourself
true but theres no guarantee that your gonna get caught so that person may not even end up getting hurt. and sometimes it takes being with someone else to see how good what you have is
there's no way on earth i'm going to think that you really believe that
why not?
if someone instills their trust in you..thats what your gonna go do...sneak around because you know that person trusts you?
thats stupid!
sure i can agree with the second part..but it would have to be see how could what i HAD was ..cause theres no way i would be in a relationship out dating around
Your so right, ive been in this same predicament before i dont think that i tried to hurt the person but i sure did think about it. but its not really worth it in the end.how would u deal of the situation if: you were dating this guy for a long time and then all of a sudden he stops talking to u he deletes u from his myspace and u feel like u've done nothing wrong? or if u hookedup with this guy that u didnt know he had a gf at the time and then she found out and u found out that he was dating her at the time, u guys are still friends but she is badmouthing u ?
your boyfriend must read your blog
you've mean to tell me you never cheated
it end up being a never ending cycle
I,ve cheated(scorpio that I am),and its never pleasant. The person I cheated on was such a great girl. She was devastated!To this very day I kinda regret it. Because after I was caught, I started having a full fledged relationship with the person I cheated with and needless to say, she turned out to be nothing like my Ex. :(
I have definitely ruined GREAT relationships with my infidelity.
But its tough for us guys. Girls nowadays are friggin' aggressive, and even if they know you have a g/f, they'll sleep with you anyway.
We all cheat, Men and Women. But as always, I think women are better at keeping it discreet.
Trust me, Cheating catches up with you though. Karma is a B**ch!
to kenny
what would my boyfriend reading my blog have to to do with anything?
but to answer your question..
i never really cheated no...i've talked to a couple of guys at the same time but never when in an actual relationship..
i've been cheated on before so that has a big influence on why i would never do it
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to my fff
wow! relationships i would never expect that from my fff...
now okay you can not blame it on women being aggressive ..maybe you should just have a bit more self control! nor can you blame it on you being a scorpio crazy man..idk how many times ive heard you throw that out there lol
& heres where i get really confused the first timer i can understand..but once you've been through it all ..discovered it was nothing pleasant..saw that your parnter was devastated ..why do it again ?
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for brandy
okay, if he is ignoring u for no reason & deletes you, it may possibly mean 1 of 2 things.
1.) he doesnt know how to TELL u he wants it to be done (whatever his reasons are) and is immature.
2.)u did something & u just dont see it - he should still talk 2 u about it tho.
and yes i've talked 2 a boy who had a gf b4. they were so on n off, and at that time they were "off" but they ended up gettin back together, & me n him ended the lil flirtatious relationship we had. i didnt talk 2 him for some time after, because he knew what he was doing the whole time. we are cool now, even me n his now ex gf r cool... "if he will cheat with u, he will cheat on you" no sense in trying to form a relationship
no as for the badmouthing part..im a bit confused as to what you were asking
Adorkable fff:
I know, the whole Scorpio excuse is Cliche. But in my case I tie in my 'Zodiac sign' with my 'passion for/appreciation of' certain aspects of the female form that other guys might look over. I just tend to be a great listener/support for all most girls I communicate with, and then that might lead to cheating. BUT, my intentions are always good. I've never cheated because I'm some guy who's trying to rack up the most 'mileage'. Lots of dudes are like that and I think thats pathetic.
To sleep with someone just because she is a FEMALE is pathetic!
I just find qualities in individuals that I love, and simple conversation blossoms into other things and you get to a point where the reasons for doing the deed overpowers the reasons not to.
I hope i'm making sense, but my intentions are always good.
Like a friend(a girl) of mines told me: "Germaine, you make everyone too comfortable!".
fff
i guess that makes sense to a certain degree
but i can def agree with your friend..i could see how you could make people feel waaaay too comfortable...your comfort foods...tasty deserts and then the convos that we had were def entertaining i know i would feel right at home under the right circumstances
:)
Wow, really Aim'? I'm flattered.
Yeah...
I Plead Guilty on all Charges, Your honor.
Yeah, Im a damn Cassanova, I admit it. I'm not.
Just kidding.
:)
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